Wednesday, February 4, 2009

FORGIVE!! there's more to life!!

Forgiveness is a key to happiness. well, cos unforgiveness is a heavy burden to carry around. And in fact you are hurting yourself even more than the pain you have been inflicted with by the other person. Being bitter helps no one ! Really no one at all! Perhaps the other person wants and knows he has hurt you. He wants you to feel the pain and you did. But harbouring unforgiveness is something that you added on yourself. The other party did not come up to you and tell you to harbour unforgiveness against him. Is an added emotional scar added on by you and yourself.
If the person aplogises for hurting you, then unforgivenesses is a really an self barrier that stops you from moving on in life when the other is already moving on.
Even if that person did not aplogises or show any remose for his actions, still unforgivenesses is a really an self barrier that stops you from moving on in life. Making yourself miserable is not going to make matters any better or change that whole thing. What has happened had happened. There is more and more burdens you have to carry as you grow up, financially, family and life . And is enough to make you lose your mind and even your senses.
Show them that you can overcome. Cos unforgiveness shows that you have not overcome the situation and that you are still living in the past. Take up the courage to forgive and live a happier life. Trust me you will.

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